“Excuse me” is a versatile phrase used to get attention, apologize, interrupt, or navigate crowded spaces. Depending on the context, there are many polite alternatives that can soften your tone or fit different situations. Here are ways to say “excuse me” while remaining respectful and appropriate.
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When Getting Someone’s Attention
- “Pardon me.”
- Polite and formal, often used in professional settings.
- “May I have a moment of your time?”
- Respectful and considerate.
- “Sorry to bother you.”
- Shows awareness of potentially interrupting.
- “Could I trouble you for a moment?”
- Polished and polite.
- “If I could just interrupt for a second…”
- Acknowledges the interruption graciously.
When Apologizing
- “I’m sorry.”
- Simple and widely accepted.
- “I beg your pardon.”
- Formal and slightly old-fashioned, but very respectful.
- “My apologies.”
- More formal than “I’m sorry,” often used in professional contexts.
- “I didn’t mean to intrude.”
- Shows humility and respect.
- “Please forgive the interruption.”
- Polite and considerate.
- “Coming through.”
- Casual but clear, often used in busy areas.
- “Pardon me, please.”
- Polite and direct.
- “Mind if I squeeze by?”
- Friendly and conversational.
- “Could I pass through, please?”
- Respectful and professional.
- “Excuse me, may I get by?”
- Combines politeness with a clear request.
When Asking for Clarification
- “Could you repeat that, please?”
- Polite and direct for misunderstandings.
- “I didn’t quite catch that.”
- Casual and polite.
- “I’m sorry, could you clarify?”
- Respectful and professional.
- “Would you mind explaining that again?”
- Polite and gentle.
- “Apologies, I missed that—could you say it again?”
- Combines an apology with a polite request.

When Interrupting a Conversation
- “Sorry to interrupt.”
- Acknowledges the disruption respectfully.
- “May I jump in here for a moment?”
- Invites permission to speak.
- “I hate to cut you off, but…”
- Polite while recognizing the interruption.
- “Can I quickly add something?”
- Makes the request polite and time-conscious.
- “If I could chime in for a second…”
- Friendly and conversational.
When Making a Request
- “May I?”
- Short and polite.
- “Would it be alright if…”
- Respectful and professional.
- “If I could trouble you for…”
- Polished and polite.
- “Would you mind if…”
- Gentle and considerate.
- “Is it okay if I…”
- Friendly and informal.
When Expressing Surprise or Disagreement
- “I’m sorry, but…”
- A soft way to lead into disagreement.
- “Pardon?”
- Indicates polite surprise or misunderstanding.
- “Could you explain that further?”
- Invites clarification without offense.
- “I beg your pardon?”
- A formal expression of disbelief or request for repetition.
- “Excuse me, but I think there might be a misunderstanding.”
- Polite and non-confrontational.
Creative or Regional Variations
- “Oops, sorry about that.”
- Light-hearted and casual.
- “Mind if I…?”
- Informal but polite.
- “Oh, sorry about that!”
- Friendly and quick acknowledgment.
- “Just a moment, please.”
- Direct and polite, often used to pause.
- “Let me just…”
- Casual and conversational.
Cultural Notes
- In formal settings or when addressing elders, use more respectful phrases like “Pardon me” or “I beg your pardon.”
- In casual settings, informal variations such as “Oops, sorry” or “My bad” can be appropriate.
- Adjust your tone and phrasing based on the context (professional, casual, or personal).